Archive for March, 2008

Today’s Challenge- Do Something NICE 4 U

Okay buddies, Sandy challenged us to eat fish yesterday…Did you? I did. I has some salmon with lemon pepper it was great!

Our challenge for today was to do something nice for ourselves. Sometimes we are so down on ourselves for not losing as much weight as we wanted to or for giving in to that junk food we said we would never ever eat again. Or somebody says something about our fluffyness that hurts really bad. But just for today … What did you do just to be nice to yourself? I went to the Half Price second hand book store and spent an hour just goofing off and looking at old record album covers - yep back down memory lane. Then I found an old Sci - fi moving I love on the $1.00 table. WoooHooo what a fun morning, now I’m going to lift some weights while I watch my bargain movie. So what did you do for yourself today Huh ???????

I’m Baaaak & I love My Mama

One whole week without access to a computer!!! My cell phone never rang, no e-mail, no weight loss buddies OMG! After I recovered from my lack of computer access withdrawals, I settled down to enjoy life in the country. Now that I’m back, I realized that everything I needed to know about healthy living I learned last week from my mama.

I learned:

Yesterday is gone, forget about it. You can’t do anything to change it so why sweat it. I was afraid my mother would be beating herself up for becoming a diabetic, but she says she cant go back and change how she usta eat, so why sweat it. Let yesterday’s mistakes go and go on with you life.

Today is the first day of the rest of your life so what are you doing today to make the rest of your life better? Every morning Mom, tapes a blank sheet of paper on her refrigerator. She writes on it in big letters ” Today I Will Do Something Good For Me” beneath that heading she writes out everything she eats and the exercises she does. Three times a day she reads it all out loud to herself. No matter what kind of day she has, the last entry at night is “I Did Good Today”.

You are never to old to learn something new. My mother didn’t know what a carb was until a few weeks ago when she was diagnosed as a diabetic, now she is the carb counting queen. She has learned to read the label on everything she eats and make substitutions based on her total carb intake per meal.

If you slow down you really can smell the flowers. Mom puts fresh flower on the kitchen table before she sits down to eat. She arranges her food on her plate like a fancy restaurant work of art. Her ice water is in a fancy glass with a lemon twist. As she slowly chews each bite she inhales the scent of the fresh flowers, pauses between fork fulls to admire their beauty and smiles. She eats longer, and feels fuller, while eating smaller portion of food.

All this from the lady who raised me on biscuits, gravy and fried chicken. Will wonders never cease!

Back To The Twilight Zone

Time to go back down in the country to visit mom, as most of you know, I was raised on bacon grease and butter. Now that mom has been diagnosed as a diabetic, I hope this time we can plan some healthy meals together. My concern is that I am doing well with low fat/high fiber, she is counting carbs. I eat high fiber bread she never eats bread. I’m not familiar with south beach but I guess I am about to get a crash course. I know we can both eat a lot of protein and veggies. I read somewhere that you can eat one egg a day without increasing your cholesterol levels. So as soon as I get there I’m going to buy some egg dye and make some pretty ones that will be fun to eat for a snack. I also have a recipe for sugar free gingerbread as my mom loves gingerbread and I loves anything sweet. No frills down in the country so I will be off line for about a week. Heartbreakers I will miss weigh in this Saturday but don’t count me out just yet….I’ll be back.

Doing the Wave…

Help my arms are waving!

I knew that when I started losing weight my body would sag, but not my arms. Oh my goodness! My upper arms are hanging down from the bottom and when I wave my hand my arm waves in the other direction. Help! Does any one know any tone your arms exercises? I am lifting weights but that’s just helping my biceps. I don’t even know what the bottom part of the arm is called but it needs help. I thought about rubber banding the hangie down part back up to the rest of my arm, but I think it would hurt tooooo much…maybe a twist tie……………

I’m Melting …….

Now that I have reached my mini goal, I decided to take my measurements. Oh My Goodness!!!! I had forgotten that my body has never fully recovered from the diet pill too rapid weight loss dumb crap I usta do. I’m talking about loss of volume big time, its like I’ve been melted. My once proud Double Ds are now searching for lint in my navel. How do you measure that? I decided to put on my lift um up bra and support hose and try measuring again. That worked! I was 50 - 50 - 50, I am now 46 - 40- 45. And the moral to this Blog is weight loss is better slow and steady not quick and dirty. My sins of the past are still with me. So this time slow and steady. I’m now working with more weights - a tip from Angie - to improve my muscle tone, and more water to help my skin regain its elasticity. We fall down but we get back up.

Ol’ School Sunday

I was sweating to the oldies this morning and my knees tried to tell me how old I really am. To distract myself, I started thinking about how things usta be. You know back in the good old days. In the good old days I would be sweating to a vinyl record on a record player no DVDs back then. And the television picture would be in Black and White. Anybody remember that? Oh Yeah and E-mail? In the good old days you handwrote a letter, then you had to lick the envelope and lick the glue on the stamp! Were the good old days that good? Maybe, I do miss Drive In Movies and Car Hops, but I sure do love all of the conveniences we take for granted today.Gotta run time for the treadmill. I remember when walking was not an indoor option……………..

10 lbs = Mini Goal Yes Yes Yes!!!!

I know this is not a big deal for most people but for me this is the Bomb! My first 10 pounds since I started working with my trainer BuddySlim.  As most of you know I was over 260 at my heaviest and I’m only 5ft 2 inches, so I had the beach ball in a moo-moo look, you know what I mean. Anyway,  5 years  ago I got down to 171. But the weight has been creeping back up a little bit more every year until now. In January 2008 I drew the line at 195, this far beach ball, but no further. Well I couldnt lose a single pound, until I found Buddyslim, and finally got it. Not just food intake reduction, but exercise and water.

Now I’m back on track 185 was my mini-goal!

 :lol:  I feel so good I might have to have a Coke… NOT!

My Freedom to Choose

This morning, as I waited impatiently for my coffee to perk, I groaned to myself” Why cant this be Starbucks?” As I tried to choose between oatmeal and cheerios, I groaned, “Why cant I just go to IHop and have a real breakfast?” At lunch I put the last fork full of salad in my mouth and groaned, “Why cant I have a cheeseburger with greasy french fries?” But, I already know the answer. Its all about choices. I have spent my life abusing My Freedom to Choose.

I chose to let food become my best friend when I was lonely, or angry, or happy, or bored.

I chose to stay up late night to catch that movie I love while snacking on junk food. I chose to sit and graze at the food court, while others completed laps around the mall.But I’m back on track now.I choose to do 30 minutes of Cardio exercise every day.

I choose to drink water instead of coke.

I choose to find healthy alternatives to the foods I love.

I choose to take back control of my life.

It wont be easy, but with the help of my Buddies I will!

Just S.T.A.N.D.

As I read thru the Blogs today, I feel we are all trying very hard to eat right and get more exercise, but sometimes that just isn’t enough. When you’ve done all that you can do just S.T.A.N.D.

S.tay the course, there will be good days and bad days. Some Heartbreaks, and Setbacks offset by Breakthroughs and Success Stories.

T.ake the time to review your success don’t beat yourself up with the negatives.

A.ccept your self for who you are - a good person with needs, who is trying to help others in need. That’s what blogging is all about. Asking for support, accepting help from your Buddies, and giving it right back.

N.ever say never. You may not make your goal on the first try, but you can do it if you keep trying. We fall down but we get up. Keep moving, every bit of movement is exercise the more we do the more we can do.

D.o Celebrate every step along the way of yours and of your Buddies. We are a team. Together we can do it. Share those successes and those moments of defeat, someone was strengthen by what you wrote.

When you have done all that you can do just STAND, knowing your Buddies stand with you!